10 signs your stuff is trying to get your attention

Here are 10 signs your clutter isn’t just everyday clutter, it’s narrative:

  1. You’ve gone through a major life shift: death, divorce, downsizing, job loss, reinvention, or an empty nest.

  2. You tell yourself, “I’ll deal with it later,” but “later” has been years.

  3. You avoid it like a ghost of your past self, close the door, shove it in the closet, walk around it.

  4. You keep things out of guilt. (“My friend gave me that sweater.” Yet you don’t even like it.)

  5. The same unresolved stuff migrates from room to room like a traveling circus.

  6. Your home is Instagram-clean on the surface. But behind that door? Pandora’s Box.

  7. You call it crap, junk, a shit-show. That’s your life you’re insulting.

  8. It’s physically in your way. Like a nightmare, it’s showing up to scare you into change.

  9. Your life and home have both lost flow. It’s all friction. Nothing’s moving forward.

  10. You’re exhausted just thinking about it, not because it’s hard, but because it’s emotionally loaded.

I’m not a home organizer.

I’m a narrative declutterer.

I help women decode the emotional weight of their things, so they can clear the clutter of a life they’ve outgrown and make space for the one they’re meant to live.

The longer you stay in a story that isn’t yours, the harder it is to step into the one that is.